I came across this that I love and think it is worth posting
"Looking for a long time is not the usual way people see artworks. The  usual interaction with an artwork is a glance or a glimpse or a cursory  look. What I have in mind is a different kind of experience: not just  glancing, but looking, staring, gazing, sitting or standing transfixed:  forgetting, temporarily, the errands you have to run, or the meeting  you're late for, and thinking, living, only inside the work. Falling in  love with an artwork, finding that you somehow need it, wanting to  return to it, wanting to keep it in your life."
 
 
